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Examining the spectrum of reciprocity styles in relationships

What would you do? According to Adam Grant, author of Give and Takethere are three different types of reciprocity types: givers, takers, and matchers. They try to gain as much as possible from their interactions while contributing as little as they can in return. Matchers like to Kinky curvy ebony for dirty talk an equal balance of giving and taking. Givers are others-focused, and tend Horny mom cooking provide support to others with no strings attached. What can I contribute?

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Doing these quick favors for a coworker or friend can go a long way in strengthening your relationships. It gives them the opportunity to be a giver, but also makes them feel good and smart. According to Grant, one of the best ways to build strong relationships is to seek advice, because it creates meaningful opportunities for someone to contribute to your life, and feel fulfilled by it. There are two ways to give: you can sprinkle random acts of kindness throughout your week, or chunk all of your giving acts into one day.

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Givers, takers, and matchers at work Guess which of these types is the most successful at work. So that must mean takers or matchers are the top performers, right?

Not exactly. Selfless givers vs. How to be a successful giver 1. Why it works: Made famous by serial entrepreneur Adam Rifkin, 5-minute favors are those small yet impactful favors you do for others that take no more than 5 minutes.

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