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This post was contributed by a community member. The views expressed here are the author's own. I want to open today's post with two disclaimers: a I have never had to personally struggle with the issue I'm about to describe, b I don't claim expertise in it professionally.

But I still think it's an interesting and important topic to think about and I'm hoping for comments from readers to help this discussion. As always, if you want your comments to be heard and to make it safe for others to comment, it's important to be respectful in how you express your views.

I have been thinking about this question in regards to women primarily, although I'm sure handsome men have similar issues, though not as pronounced. There is much more emphasis on beauty with women, and it infiltrates almost every aspect of our culture and marketplace.

With men I intend to take a look more at the psychological challenges of being rich, but that will wait for another day. So what could be Looking for a creampie to eat about being beautiful, you ask? What's so terrible about being sought out, about having an easier time getting everything from dates to jobs?

Who wouldn't want to be beautiful?

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Some women learn to make use of the way they're treated superficially to turn the tables on those who see them only as "dumb blonds. How easy is it to believe you're intelligent, that you have something to offer, when all anyone seems to notice is how pretty you are? A third and connected issue is that it can make a woman dependent on external validation. If you grow up on a steady diet of attention, if every time you walk into a room all the men's he turn to look at you, you may well develop a way of being in the world where external attention is the only way you can feel Beautiful ladies seeking real sex Newburgh. You then become dependent on this kind of superficial validation: do you find me attractive?

Can I get you to notice me? Men are by and large complete suckers for this kind of ploy — a beautiful woman need only touch them lightly on the forearm and they Woman looking nsa Bristolville Ohio immediately in a swoon and willing to do anything for more.

It doesn't have to be about sex. It can simply stay at the level of wanting more of the beautiful woman's attention. And it requires of a beautiful woman a lot of consciousness and a lot of integrity not to take advantage of this kind of advantage.

A fourth issue is having to contend with the envy of other women.

How many relationships have been poisoned — and not just in high school — because a beautiful woman simply by walking into the room garnered more than her share of attention? Finally, Lady wants casual sex South Greenfield beauty has a limited shelf life. At a certain age, you simply are no longer the most attractive woman in the room. Then what?

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It's as if they are "doing the movements" as opposed to being in the moment.

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